Guide

How to Pay Bills on Maternity Leave (and Handle the Debt You Already Ran Up)

The U.S. has no federal paid maternity leave, which means millions of new parents face a real income gap — and many reach for credit cards before they realize there are income-replacement options they never claimed. This guide covers the free and low-cost levers first: state paid family leave programs, employer short-term disability, bill deferrals, and baby benefits. Then, for the card balance you already carried through the gap, it covers your honest options with no sugarcoating.

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By Dana Whitfield — Personal finance writer

Step 1: income-replacement options most parents don't know exist

Before you look at any loan product, balance transfer, or debt program, take stock of the income that may already be owed to you. The United States does not require employers to pay workers during maternity leave — but that does not mean there is no money available. Most new parents who go into debt during leave did so without realizing they were eligible for state paid family leave, employer short-term disability, or both. These are income-replacement benefits, not loans — you do not pay them back.

This section walks through each lever in order of accessibility. Work through all of them before concluding that credit is the only option.

State paid family leave (PFL) programs

As of 2026, the following states have active paid family leave programs that can replace a portion of your wages while you bond with a new child:

If you live in one of these states and did not file for PFL when you went on leave, call or go online to the program now. Some states allow retroactive filing for a limited window. If you are currently on leave, file today — do not wait. These programs are funded through payroll deductions you have likely already paid into, and the benefit is yours to claim.

If your state is not on this list, check whether legislation has passed since this was written — the list has grown steadily. The U.S. Department of Labor maintains a current map of state programs.

Employer short-term disability — childbirth is usually covered

This is the most commonly missed income source for new mothers. If your employer offers group short-term disability (STD) insurance — and many do — childbirth and the post-delivery recovery period are treated as a covered medical event under virtually all standard group STD plans.

Here is how it typically works:

If you went on leave and no one told you to file a short-term disability claim, you may be able to file retroactively. Check with your benefits administrator now. In states with their own state disability programs — California (SDI), New Jersey (TDI), New York (DBL), Rhode Island (TDI), and Hawaii (TDI) — the state program coordinates with employer STD plans and with state PFL benefits.

FMLA: your job is protected even on unpaid leave

The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) provides up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave per year for qualifying employees at covered employers (50+ employees within 75 miles, and you have worked there 12 months and 1,250 hours). FMLA itself pays nothing — but it means your employer cannot legally eliminate your position while you are on qualifying leave, and must restore you to the same or an equivalent position when you return.

FMLA matters financially because it removes the risk of losing your income source permanently while you are on leave. It also applies to both parents — fathers and non-birthing parents qualify for FMLA bonding leave. File the paperwork with your employer's HR department; your healthcare provider will complete a certification form. The Department of Labor's FMLA page has forms and employer guidance.

If your employer has fewer than 50 employees, FMLA does not apply — but some states have separate family leave protections with lower employer thresholds. Check your state's labor department.

Which bills you can pause or defer right now

No bill pauses automatically. But with a phone call, many can. Here is a practical triage:

Credit cards

Call the hardship or customer assistance line for each card before you miss a payment. Ask explicitly for a "financial hardship program," "payment deferral," or "hardship forbearance." Many major issuers — Chase, Citi, Capital One, Bank of America, Discover, American Express — offer 1–3 months of deferred payments or reduced minimums for customers who call proactively, without reporting it as a missed payment. Get the name of the representative, a reference number, and confirmation of what was agreed to in writing or by email.

Federal student loans

Log in at studentaid.gov and explore income-driven repayment (IDR) — if your income dropped significantly during leave, your monthly payment may recalculate to near zero. You can also apply for an economic hardship deferment or general forbearance online. Private student loans: call your servicer and ask about forbearance options.

Utilities and rent

Most state utilities are required to offer payment plans for customers facing hardship. Call your gas, electric, and water provider and ask for a payment arrangement. The Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP) may help with heating and cooling costs — apply through benefits.gov or your state's energy office. For rent: some landlords will negotiate temporarily reduced or deferred rent for documented hardship. Local emergency rental assistance programs (find them through 211.org) may also help.

Medical bills from the birth

Before paying any hospital or delivery bill, ask the billing department for a charity-care or financial-assistance application. Under IRS rules (Section 501(r)), nonprofit hospitals must have financial-assistance policies and must make them available to patients — but they do not always tell you. Many hospitals will reduce or eliminate bills for patients whose income dropped significantly. Ask for the written policy, request an application, and do not pay the full billed amount until you have gone through that process.

Benefits for the baby: WIC, Medicaid, SNAP, 211, and charity care

A new baby brings new eligibility for assistance programs that can significantly reduce your household costs during leave. These are not charity — they are programs your family is entitled to if you meet the income criteria.

Warning: "maternity leave loans" and BNPL leave-financing

A search for "maternity leave loan" or "parental leave financing" will return lenders actively marketing products for this exact situation. Before you borrow, understand what you are taking on:

The better sequence: (1) claim state paid leave and STD benefits you may not have filed for, (2) call creditors for hardship deferrals, (3) apply for WIC, Medicaid, and SNAP, (4) contact 211 for local assistance. Only if a genuine gap remains after those steps should a loan be considered. If you do need to borrow, a 0% balance-transfer card (no interest for 12–21 months if you qualify) is lower-cost than a personal loan for the same balance — see our balance transfer guide for how it works and what to watch out for.

The credit card balance you already ran up: honest options

If you are past the leave period and now carrying a balance that grew during the income gap, here is what the options actually look like — without overpromising.

Call creditors' hardship lines — even retroactively

If you missed payments during leave and are now back at work, call each creditor anyway. Many issuers will waive some late fees, reduce penalty interest rates, or set up a payment plan for accounts that went delinquent during a documented hardship period. Ask specifically for a "financial hardship payment plan" or "hardship interest rate reduction." The call is free and the downside of asking is zero.

Nonprofit debt management plan (DMP)

A nonprofit credit counselor through NFCC.org (the National Foundation for Credit Counseling) can review all your unsecured accounts and enroll them in a debt management plan. Under a DMP, creditors typically agree to reduce interest rates — often to 6–10% from rates that may now be 25–30% — and you make one consolidated monthly payment to the nonprofit, which distributes it to your creditors. You repay the full principal over three to five years, but at significantly lower cost. A DMP has a modest effect on your credit (you generally cannot open new credit while enrolled), but it avoids the more significant credit damage of settlement. Initial counseling is typically free or low-cost. This is the right fit if you can make a consistent monthly payment, even a reduced one.

0% balance transfer

If your credit is still in reasonable shape (generally 670+ FICO), a 0% balance-transfer card can move your high-interest balances to a card with no interest for 12–21 months. This does not reduce what you owe, but it stops interest from compounding while you recover income. There is typically a 3–5% transfer fee. The risk: if you cannot pay off the balance during the promotional window, it reverts to a standard rate — often 20%+. Use this tool only if you have a realistic plan to clear the balance within the promotional period. See our balance transfer guide for the full picture.

Debt settlement — what it can and cannot do

Debt settlement is a strategy for resolving unsecured debt for less than the full balance. A settlement company negotiates with creditors on your behalf, typically after you build up a dedicated savings fund over time. It applies only to unsecured debt — credit cards, personal loans, some medical accounts — not to mortgage, auto loan, or federal student loan debt.

For parents carrying large unsecured balances from the maternity leave gap that they genuinely cannot repay in full, settlement can reduce the principal owed. But the trade-offs are real:

The rough pre-qualification bar for most programs is $7,500 or more in unsecured debt, a genuine financial hardship, and an ability to set aside a modest monthly amount toward a settlement fund. If you meet that bar and cannot realistically repay the full balance in full even through a DMP, a free estimate from our primary settlement partner (National Debt Relief) will show you specifically what a program might look like for your debts and state. Their free estimate does not affect your credit and comes with no obligation. Compare the DMP path (full repayment, lower credit impact) against settlement (potentially reduced principal, more credit impact) before committing to either.

Free and low-cost help — start here

This is a stressful situation — a new baby, a real income gap, and bills that do not pause for any of it. But the options above are worth working through in order before turning to high-cost debt. The free and income-replacement levers can eliminate or reduce the gap; the debt options below them exist for what remains. Take it one step at a time.

Frequently asked questions

How do I pay my bills while on unpaid maternity leave?

Start with every income-replacement option before touching credit or savings. (1) Check whether your state has a paid family leave program — CA, CO, CT, DE, MA, MD, MN, NJ, NY, OR, RI, and WA all have active programs that replace 60–90% of your wages for a period; file as soon as you go on leave, since deadlines exist. (2) File a short-term disability (STD) claim through your employer — most group STD plans cover the childbirth-recovery period (typically 6–8 weeks vaginal, 8–10 weeks C-section) even if they do not explicitly say "maternity leave." (3) Call each creditor's hardship line and ask to defer or reduce payments — most have unpublicized hardship programs. (4) Contact your local utility and ask about budget billing, payment plans, or low-income assistance (LIHEAP). (5) Dial 2-1-1 for local emergency food, rental, and utility assistance. Only after exhausting these should you consider a loan or credit card.

Does going on maternity leave affect my credit score?

Taking maternity leave itself — unpaid or paid — has no direct effect on your credit score. Lenders and credit bureaus cannot see your employment leave status. What can affect your score is what happens to your payments during leave: if you miss credit card, loan, or utility payments because you cannot cover them on reduced income, those late or missed payments will be reported and can lower your score significantly. The way to protect your credit is to proactively contact creditors before you miss a payment and ask about hardship deferral programs — most issuers offer 1–3 months of payment suspension for documented hardship, and a deferred payment is not a missed payment from a credit-reporting standpoint.

What happens if I miss a credit card payment while on maternity leave?

Missing a payment by more than 30 days triggers a negative mark on your credit report that can stay for up to seven years. You may also face a late fee and a penalty interest rate on that card. The practical answer: call the card issuer before you miss the payment, not after. Ask for their "financial hardship program" or "payment deferral." Most major issuers — Chase, Citi, Capital One, Bank of America, Discover, American Express — have programs that let you skip 1–3 months of payments without a negative credit report, if you ask proactively. Document the call (get a name, date, and any reference number) and confirm in writing what was agreed.

Can I defer or pause my credit card payments during maternity leave?

You cannot force a creditor to defer payments, but many will if you ask. Call the hardship or customer assistance line for each card (the number is on the back of the card or the card's website) and explain you are on unpaid or partially-paid maternity leave. Ask specifically for a "hardship payment plan," "payment deferral," or "interest rate reduction." The outcome depends on the issuer and your account history, but proactively calling is almost always better than simply missing a payment. If you have already missed payments, a nonprofit credit counselor (NFCC.org) can sometimes negotiate with multiple creditors on your behalf through a debt management plan.

Can I get a loan to cover unpaid maternity leave?

Personal loans and so-called "maternity leave loans" exist, but they carry real costs and risks worth understanding before you borrow. A personal loan from a bank or credit union will charge interest (often 8–25% APR depending on credit) for the full repayment term — you are paying back more than you borrowed, and you are starting new parenthood in more debt. Some lenders specifically market "parental leave financing" products at higher rates still. A 0% balance-transfer card, if your credit allows, can be a lower-cost bridge — no interest for the promotional period (typically 12–21 months) if you pay it off in time. But before borrowing at all: (1) exhaust state paid leave programs, (2) file for short-term disability through your employer, and (3) call creditors for hardship deferral. These options cost nothing or far less than a loan.

Is it normal to go into debt during maternity leave?

It is common — especially in the U.S., where federal law does not require paid leave and most workers go weeks or months without full pay. A 2023 analysis by the Bipartisan Policy Center found that nearly half of new mothers reported financial hardship during their leave. Common enough to be normal, though, does not mean inevitable. Many parents do not realize they qualify for state paid family leave, short-term disability, or WIC and Medicaid for the baby until after they have already run up debt. The first step is checking every income-replacement lever before assuming you have to borrow.

How much does maternity leave actually pay?

FMLA (the federal Family and Medical Leave Act) provides up to 12 weeks of job-protected leave for qualifying employees at companies with 50+ workers — but it pays nothing. Your income during that time depends on: (1) your state's paid family leave program, if any — these typically replace 60–90% of your weekly wages up to a cap; (2) your employer's own paid leave policy — some offer partial or full salary continuation; (3) short-term disability insurance through your employer, which typically covers 60–70% of your pay for the recovery period after delivery. Many parents combine all three to maximize their replacement income. If you live in a state without a PFL program and your employer offers no paid leave, your options are limited to STD, any accrued PTO, and the hardship programs described above.

Which bills can I pause or skip when I have a baby?

No bill pauses automatically, but several can be deferred with a phone call. (1) Credit cards: call the hardship line and ask for payment deferral or a hardship plan. (2) Federal student loans: you may qualify for income-driven repayment with a $0 payment if your income dropped, or for an economic hardship deferment — log in at studentaid.gov. (3) Private student loans: call your servicer and ask about forbearance. (4) Utilities: most states require utilities to offer payment plans for customers in hardship; ask your provider or contact your state's utility commission. (5) Medical bills from the birth: hospitals are required to have financial-assistance programs under IRS 501(r) rules — ask the billing department for a charity-care application before paying. (6) Mortgage/rent: your mortgage servicer may offer forbearance; rental hardship may qualify for local emergency assistance through 211.

Are there grants for moms on unpaid maternity leave?

Grants specifically for maternity leave income replacement are rare, but several programs help with the underlying costs. WIC (the Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children) provides free food benefits for pregnant and postpartum women and children under 5 — apply at your local WIC office or through benefits.gov. Medicaid covers prenatal and postpartum care for income-eligible mothers in all states (income limits vary; check your state's Medicaid agency). SNAP (food stamps) eligibility may increase when household income drops during leave. Local community action agencies, nonprofits, and religious organizations often have emergency assistance funds — 211.org connects you to what is available locally. These are not grants in the traditional sense, but they reduce the out-of-pocket costs that drive leave-time debt.

What is short-term disability and does it cover maternity leave?

Short-term disability (STD) insurance replaces a portion of your income — usually 60–70% of your base pay — when you cannot work due to a health condition, including pregnancy and post-delivery recovery. Childbirth is treated as a covered medical event under most group STD plans: typically 6 weeks for a vaginal delivery and 8 weeks for a C-section, starting from the date of delivery. If your employer offers group STD, you very likely qualify — many mothers on "maternity leave" do not realize this is a separate claim from FMLA that produces actual income. File the claim through your employer's HR department or benefits administrator as soon as possible after delivery. State short-term disability programs (CA, NJ, NY, RI, and HI have them) are separate from and stackable with state paid family leave in some cases.